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Radical Islam: What You Need to Know


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U.S. Army General David H. Petraeus, Commander United States Central Command, speaks at the Home Front Cares annual fund-raising event on Nov. 4th, 2009 in Colorado Springs, Colorado (Credit: DoD Photo by USAF Staff Sgt. Bradley A. Lail)"Historians will likely judge David Petraeus to be the most effective American military commander since Eisenhower," according to CNNTime credits him with "salvaging the U.S. war in Iraq." John McCain testified that he "will stand in the ranks of America's greatest military heroes."  Now he has resigned as Director of the CIA in disgrace.

I first heard Gen. Petraeus when he spoke at a leadership event in Dallas a few years ago, and was deeply impressed with his intellect and candor.  A West Point graduate, he earned a Ph.D. in International Relations from Princeton and authored 23 books and articles.  After leading our forces in Iraq, he became commander of all U.S. military operations in the greater Middle East before assuming control of operations in Afghanistan.  On June 30, 2011, he was confirmed unanimously by the Senate as Director of the Central Intelligence Agency.

He has been married for 37 years to Holly Petraeus.  The couple met when he was a cadet at West Point, where she was the daughter of the academy superintendent.  They have two children; their son led an infantry platoon in Afghanistan.

Last Thursday he resigned his office after the FBI discovered emails revealing Petraeus's affair with his biographer, Paula Broadwell.  She is a West Point and Harvard graduate, a 40-year-old married mother of two.  On Friday, the president accepted his resignation.  Such a transgression is considered a serious breach of security for an intelligence director—foreign governments could have blackmailed Petraeus or otherwise compromised his leadership.

In 1 Kings 15:5 we find a bittersweet epitaph which begins, "David had done what was right in the eyes of the Lord and had not failed to keep any of the Lord's commands all the days of his life."  High praise, but the verse ends: "except in the case of Uriah the Hittite."  Will history remember David Petraeus with the same caveat?

We must never assume that present obedience guarantees future faithfulness.  While our culture segregates religion from the "real world," you and I should never make the mistake of self-reliance in guarding our integrity.  "There but for the grace of God go I" is the right response to Gen. Petraeus's sin and our temptations.

In the latest Newsweek there is an article titled "Petraeus's Rules for Living," written by Paula Broadwell.  "Lead by example from the front of the formation" is his first rule.  It should be ours as well.

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+11 # Miriam 2012-11-12 08:06
I am extremely blessed to read an article that encourages us to have a godly response to this man's sin. Instead of judging or excusing his sin, you have emphasized learning from the situation. Let us pray for this man and everyone involved. Let us ask the Lord to lead them all to him as they struggle with the fallout. Let us also pray that we maintain our conviction and integrity before the Lord.
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-7 # Abbie 2012-11-12 08:12
It seems that the higher a person goes, the more "privileges" they feel belong to them. He has dishonored the many who have died for our country. I hope that our soldiers will eventually get a "true leader" instead of someone like this. He has not kept his oath and does not deserve to keep his rank. It should be removed.
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+8 # Juanita Ricard 2012-11-12 11:47
But how many more have sins that are hid from the public eye. Forgiveness is still the key. If he has repented then who are we to judge?
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+4 # Joseph M Drum 2012-11-12 12:42
I find it very interesting that just before this man is set to testify about the President's involvement in the September killings of four Americans in Benghazi, Libya, and about the attacks on the U.S. Consulate there. Do you think this is a discrediting tactic/diversion to get our President off the hook for allowing guns to be sold to our enemies? Yes, Petraeus may have had an affair, and how is that any different from President Clinton's affair while in office? We are all sinners, no one is sinless.
JOHN 8:6 - 7 They were using this question as a trap, in order to have a basis for accusing him. But Jesus bent down and started to write on the ground with his finger. When they kept on questioning him, he straightened up and said to them, “Let any one of you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone..." We need to pray for forgivness, wisdom and discernment for Petraeus and ourselves.
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-11 # Big Z 2012-11-12 08:14
Jim,

I remember you from SPDL. Are you pastoring a church too?

I did not know the general's mistress was also a West Point grad. The Haaaavaaaad grad does not impress. It goes to show that smart people do stupid things.

DP should've known better than to get in bed with the racist coward Obama as well as the well educated bimbo, bless their hearts.
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+3 # John Larimer 2012-11-12 08:22
I would like to add to that Rules for Living As our example is in God's Christ so our example should be Jesus being the frist fruit of all who believe as our God Humbled Himself for us unto reconciliation and in so doing exalted Himself in Love. God Is Love!!!
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+6 # Ardie Maschmann 2012-11-12 08:50
Why is it that we had a president that did this and it was set aside and more or less did nothing about it and he was treated as a great president during the last election and we put great shame on an American hero? I believe that Gen. Petraeus after being found out did the right thing and owned it . President Clinton lied multiple times and now is treated like one of the great presidents??? Something very big is wrong with this picture....
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+6 # Jeff Gore 2012-11-12 09:29
The general has done some great things in his past, but if we find out he was at all involved in watching and leaving our four countrymen to be butchered at the hands of terrorists in Libya, he is a traitor and a coward and should be harshly punished along with everyone else involved in the obvious cover up. Even if he had no involvement in that, part of repentance is accepting responsibility for you own sin. As David finally did with the whole Uriah and Bethsheba ordeal, so has the General, or so it seems. I do not condemn him for sins only God can forgive him for. But there are earthly consequences.
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+2 # Jenn 2012-11-13 11:11
This is a question for the US President not the general, he already lied for him.Cleaning house so there is no one to testify against him about Benghazi.
Unfortunately the US is being ran like a 3rd world country.....
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+5 # Kathy 2012-11-12 09:38
Would he have done the right thing had his emails not have been found out. God sees every dark corner we hide and will expose them to light. It is right to resign as Paul referred to the church in Corinth about what what happening inside the church and the people were being reminded about conforming. If we brushed this off our standards of CIA officials would drop. I agree with the person above...how Clinton was able to slide thru....makes you wonder.
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+4 # brenda 2012-11-12 09:49
"We must never assume that present obedience guarantees future faithfulness. While our culture segregates religion from the "real world," you and I should never make the mistake of self-reliance in guarding our integrity. "There but for the grace of God go I" is the right response to Gen. Petraeus's sin and our temptations."

Jim
I agree with what you said but would like to add that present and past sin does not guarantees future unfaithfulness either.

What you said has been lost in interpretation for some. They could not wait to start throwing stones from their lofty religious towers. I must believe that those who could not wait to jump in and critize, are and have always been sinless. Otherwise they would not have the right to judge and should know it.

I will pray for him and his family as this news will effect them more than any of us.
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+6 # Amos Odiit 2012-11-12 09:51
Every Human needs God's Grace. The good general should seize the opportunity to confess his sin to God, to his wife, ask for forgiveness, and sin no more.
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+6 # Roy A Ames 2012-11-12 10:21
When you put yourself in a situation such as the general did and no one chaperoning the situation you leave yourself open to temptation. He spend to much time with this women behind close doors with no one else present that is always a recepie for trouble as the bible says flee even the appearance of evil.
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+4 # Jane 2012-11-12 11:17
The money, sex, and power thing draws women now as well as men. It is very hurtful to all involved.

We can be grateful that this travesty was not ignored by our government, however, it's interesting that it was kept quiet until after the election.

I have a minister friend who says he never even has coffee with a woman. To guard our integrity, it is necessary to keep strong boundaries....and it is a choice we make.
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+4 # Van W. Cottom 2012-11-12 10:37
The general violated one of the militaries most sacrosanct rules of letting yourself be compromised by sex. Over and over military men and women have allowed sex to put them in a position where they will be blackmailed by evil people.
The general knew this and tried to ignore the rules he himself has taught for years.That which you sow, also shall you reap.
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+2 # Juanita Ricard 2012-11-12 11:44
If he made this mistake and has repented of it then who are we to judge him. "All have sinned and come short of the glory of God". We all need to repent. The Bible does say that when we repent and turn from our wrong doing then God forgives and casts our sin into His Sea 0f Forgetfulness. If we love Him and sin no more on purpose then we are considered "perfect" in His eyes. We should not sit in judgment on this man nor any other. Look in our own closet. Have we beeen forgiven? Then so must he.
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0 # Jan 2012-11-12 12:30
And if you think that the affair was the reason he resigned, I have some ocean-front property in Arizona to sell you.
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0 # Rhonda 2012-11-12 12:46
I was not surprised. I have friends that served in Iraq and Afghanistan under his command. He was referred to as Gen. Betrayus - not only by the rank and file, but upper command as well. Hopefully, he has truly asked for foregiveness from the 2 that matter most - his wife and God.
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+1 # Peter Kinberger 2012-11-12 18:53
Rhonda, you must understand that he takes his orders from the President of the U.S. and must execute them regardless of his own personal opinions. He is given no choice and therefore no one down the line of leadership has one either. His life is on the line in his position. He could be executed for not obeying the president and he has no mechanism to appeal to public opinion.
Your friends are short on understanding because they bear the brunt of presidential determinations. The reason they call him Betray us is several fold. One of which is it sounds cute or cool to rhyme his name. Another is they do not have the capacity to walk in the General's shoes. They are not old or mature enough.
All they know is things were tough and they passed the buck up the ladder. Usually the buck travels in the opposite direction. But comparing apples to apples many are alive and living because of the General's own innovations. Generals do not have an easy day. It hurts them when they see injured and dead combatants on both sides of the war. They do their best to preserve the sanctity of life even under presidential orders or tirades. I am certain he grieves over the lives lost in Benghazi because they were his boys. It is not beyond the scope of officers to commit suicide if the things they don't tell anybody become to great for them to bear. It is a matter of honor, something most civilians do not understand and many of the military underlings as well.
I hope he will survive this. There are many things the military does not tell the public because the truth is not handled very well by the public. They silently work to keep you free without any real complaint because it is forbidden to complain. The only things you know is what the government controlled press wants those with itching ears to hear . You also hear the complaints of formeractive duty service members and the government has already calculated that in the equation. Best wishes!
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+2 # Shirley McMahan 2012-11-12 13:52
Why do some of the most respected and loyal people fall, creating an aftershock of gigantic proportions? We know that men and women are not to be idols of worship, but as we respect these people we become so disallusioned, wondering if we can trust anyone to be what they claim to be. Some may just pass this off as, "oh well, he is just a man after all." Yes, he is but a very special man, to the people he leads into battle and when he speaks people listen. What went wrong? Why was he so guilable? Why did he betray not only his wife and family but the country? We have had a series of these kinds of failures, from presidents and down through the ranks of goverenment officials and leaders of our country. We have it in our everyday lives as well, we see it on tv, and the hollywood stars are constantly falling in and out of love and betrayal. Is it an epidemic. Is there really something morally wrong going on in our country? I think the later. Our country has changed from a God-fearing and God-loving country into a "anything goes" country. This too shall pass, and we will quickly forget it until the next one happens and then we will remember all the failures of people in power. They need accountability, not just to the country and their comrades, but to a "higher power" the God of the Universe, our Creator and His Son Jesus Christ. I pray it will happen soon.
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+2 # Barbara Ann 2012-11-12 15:17
Shirley, I couldn't agree with you more. I am praying that God will send a revival into this land that will wake up the Church! It will shake this nation to it's core!!! Bringing true repentance so Jesus Christ can be truly glorified in the lives of His people and that Millions will be saved!!!
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+2 # Karin 2012-11-12 14:17
I am so sorry to read about this happening, and so encouraged in how you presented this to us, Jim. It seems to me that we are not to rejoice over anyone's misfortune, rather make intercession and hope for the restoration of these people - first to God, and then to each other. If it is all true, God "has" judged this situation through the laws of your country.

The enemy works so hard at exploiting our human weaknesses and destroying people - and I have noticed that he waits until people are at the top of their career and where the news of it will do the most damage to throw all he's got at individuals, families, nations.

Regarding the comments about President Clinton, I watched John Bevere dvds and he said that because the Lord had alerted him to pray for the President, he had been doing so for quite some time before President Clinton fell into sexual sin, and that when that happened, rather than experiencing condemnation of the man, he felt great compassion for him and continued to pray for his restoration. Additionally, I heard that Billy Graham ministered to him - and that was a big part of Bill Clinton and his wife being able to restore their marriage. I hope that what I heard is true, and that the Clinton's experienced a true restoration of their marriage, and for the right reasons.

In reading some of these other comments and in having read several bios now of how corrupt people set out to corrupt "good men", when I hear some news like this it makes me wonder what really happened.

I recently read the book Son of Hamas, and got an idea of how convoluted much of what we hear can be.

I like what some others here have said. If "we" take the high road, God will help "us". Praying for the salvation, protection, and healing of others - and especially of those who are in positions of leadership, and especially of those who are "good", that helps us all.
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0 # Jane 2012-11-12 19:09
I agree with a lot of what you've said. I do think you're a little naive about the Clintons. I believe that's a different story.
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+1 # bev 2012-11-12 14:37
It is truely sad when those at the top commit sin, sin is sin regardless of who does it. It saddend me to think what both families are encountering right now with the media scrutiny and criticism and the open embarrassment the wife and husband of the disloyal parties are enduring. May God peace be with them all.

I donot believe this was his first extra-marital affair..... it's all to convenient,this is the same man that was going to testify on what transpired in Benghazi, the powers that be said it was not a terrorist act but a youtube video that sparked all that.... right.
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+4 # Peter Kinberger 2012-11-12 15:04
Veteran's day is actually a two day observance and I write this as a Marine veteran on the second of the two. Today, I will refrain from making any comment on General Petraeus as he is a fellow veteran. I respect him and I honor his profound service to this nation. Each ribbon on his uniform stands for a medal he earned.Lesser men would be proud to even earn one of those medals. I will pray that God sees him through this and shows him a mercy of the likes he has never seen before and that he understands from whence that mercy came. I ask everyone to join me in these observances with great thankfulness in their hearts and reach out to veterans everywhere that you can with all that you have been blessed with. Help veterans in any way possible. Thank you and may God's perfect Love and Blessings be upon you all.
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+3 # Dr. Tracy Baker 2012-11-12 15:19
Somehow I think that the U.S. Congress, the Mecca of dishonest, disreputable, unethical, illegal behavior is not the organization to investigate this matter. Do I condone what Gen. Petraeus did? No way! But having the U.S. Congress investigate is like leaving the fox in charge of the henhouse. Should the Justice Dept. do it? They have no credibility after the Fast and Furious debacle. Should the Army do it? Maybe, but we should not be sanguine about them investigating one of their "fair haired boys". Gen. Petraeus undoubtedly made a lot of friends during his career and could call in a few favors in return. When I was in the Air Force, I worked for a Colonel who was honest and forthright who said "The higher rank you have, the more you can get away with." This wasn't a surprise to me, having seen it over and over, but I was surprised at someone of his rank admitting it. So what do we say about Gen. Petraeus and his career? It was a great career and he went out with a bang(the pun is most assuredly intended)!
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-1 # Karin 2012-11-12 23:55
I just read today's news report of the situation with this General and his biographer. Who counsels these people? It was an entirely preventable mess.

In a situation like this, at the very least, the attendants to the CIA director's job should be to ensure that the chosen biographer is not "much younger and beautiful".

I am still very saddened, and prayerful - but as I get more information, I think - who counsels and offers good advice and protection for a top-notch Official like this? Don't people around him "see" a train-wreck coming?

Don't those kind of safeguards go along with a position like that? Wise attendants/advisors?

I would think that would be protocol in protecting someone who is that essential to the safety and security of any country.
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-2 # Julianne Rolandsen 2012-11-13 23:46
Why do I sense in these comments that America needs to come into Revival and repentence more than ever? Do people not realise that Revival has already struck this country, and that conviction unto repentence is growing stronger by the day.Just as in the fiery Revivalist days of the Book of Acts,the Holy Spirit has unveiled secret sin and its consequences...and in the process has triggered off a healthy 'fear of the Lord' amongst us all.
He (the Holy Spirit) has also spoken volumes through last week's election outcome eg by not allowing the Presidency to fall into the hands of an ardent follower of a 'false' Jesus. Study the mormon cult, and you will learn how much of a 'FALSE CHRIST' its leader really is.
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0 # Mr. T. 2012-11-14 08:10
General Petraeus and his wife are two great people and I wish both of them the best. He has made a terrible mistake, owned up to it and now it's between him, his wife and GOD to fix it.GOD's grace and mercy is sufficient. Clinton, Bush, Obama had nothing to do with it and their names shouldn't even be in the discussion it was a personal mistake and that's it.
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