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Radical Islam: What You Need to Know


Radical Islam: What You Need to Know by Dr. Jim Denison

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A young Bruneian girl meditating in a grassy field (Credit: Lisa Omarali via Flickr)Have you heard of the "spiritual but not religious" movement?  The name describes it well—people who say they are spiritual but have no commitment to any particular religion or institution.

Their movement is generating national attention after a recent editorial on CNN's website claimed that it "represents some of the most retrogressive aspects of contemporary society."  Why?  Because those who are SBNR are not required to do anything with their beliefs.  They can feel connected to their higher power without grappling with sin or applying their spirituality to the world.  The editorial concludes: "Theirs is a world of fence-sitting, not-knowingness, but not-trying-ness either.  Take a stand, I say."

I'd go further.  In my view, the SBNR movement is the greatest spiritual threat America faces today.  Consider first its size.  According to Gallup, one in three Americans say they're "spiritual but not religious."  That's more than 100 million people, equivalent to the number of Protestants and Catholics in our nation combined.  If SBNR was a denomination, it would be the largest in America by far.

Next, think about its appeal.  You can dine at a spiritual buffet where you choose what you eat.  If you like the idea of meditating to alleviate stress, put some Buddhism on your plate.  If you want to be one with the universe, add some Hinduism.  Select Jesus' "love your enemies" teachings alongside Islam's disciplined prayer schedule and Judaism's embrace of family and ritual.  Why not take the best of each, eating the fish but leaving the bones?

What's wrong with SBNR?  First, it violates the religions it claims to embrace.  Buddhism is more than meditation; Islam is more than its prayer schedule; Christianity is more than Jesus' ethic toward our enemies.  Second, it keeps its followers from knowing the God they claim to accept.  Jesus was blunt: "No one comes to the Father except through me" (John 14:6).  Peter agreed: "Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to men by which they must be saved" (Acts 4:12).

I understand the disconnect many feel with religious institutions today.  At the same time, I'm convinced that SBNR is not the answer.  It is spiritual inoculation, giving us enough of the "disease" to keep us from contracting the real thing.  Who is behind it?  "The god of this age has blinded the minds of unbelievers, so that they cannot see the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ, who is the image of God" (2 Corinthians 4:4).

Every image of the church in the New Testament is collective—a body with many members, a vine with many branches.  There are no solos in the Book of Revelation.  We were built for community and accountability.  And we need a personal, daily, intimate relationship with the One who made us.  You may be spiritual and you may be religious, but here's the question: are you his?  If you don't feel close to God, guess who moved?

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+2 # Dan Grissom 2012-10-02 07:07
We as Christians need an outline with which we can conversationally help people see that being "spiritual" doesn't solve the fundamental problem of humanity. Those using the "spiritual but not religious" words diagnose "the problem" and prescribe a "solution" as they see fit. This is subjective, self-determined religion - they have created what they say they are not. Being non-religious becomes their religion. Most Christians have a hard time explaining why true Biblical Christianity is different and therefore are unable to help those around them see their fallacies. . .
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+9 # Ivan 2012-10-02 07:08
A personal relationship with Jesus Christ is the path for real spirituality.
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0 # Niel de Villiers 2012-10-06 05:18
Quoting Ivan:
A personal relationship with Jesus Christ is the path for real spirituality.

I would like to say that Yeshua was not religious in His time either - a lot of His time was taken up , showing the hyprocracy of the religious order of that time
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0 # Jane 2012-10-02 07:35
Your subject this morning reminded me of what was written in your "Faith of the Candidates" report. President Obama describes the religious upbringing his mother gave him:
"In our household the Bible, the Koran, and the Bhagavad Gita sat on the shelf
alongside books of Greek and Norse and African mythology. On Easter or
Christmas Day my mother might drag me to church, just as she dragged me to the Buddhist temple, the Chinese New Year celebration, the Shinto shrine, and
ancient Hawaiian burial sites. But I was made to understand that such religious
samplings required no sustained commitment on my part—no introspective
exertion or self-flagellation. Religion was an expression of human culture, she
would explain, not its well-spring, just one of the many ways—and not
necessarily the best way—that man attempted to control the unknowable and
understand the deeper truths about our lives."
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+1 # Gayl 2012-10-02 08:06
I stand convicted and aim to improve what I have started. I make excuses not enough gas, no money, no job, illness taking care of children left in my care, yes, I stand convicted and accused and beg forgiveness. Realizing the conviction of our sin is half the battle the other part is an upward climb.
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+2 # Patrick Mayers 2012-10-02 08:12
I appreciate Denison's thoughts on this SBNR movement. Bringing it to light in our culture today is exactly where we need to be and I believe it is much of the root of the problems in America today. There is a lack of commitment in our culture, a failure to follow through in everything, and is most evident in american marriages. We as a people of God must stand up, hold each other accountable, encourage one another through verse and truth, and require commitment from one another. Don't sit on the fence, choose. And be careful what you choose, becuase that choice has eternal consequenses.
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+1 # Steve 2012-10-02 08:17
[youtube]I have been browsing Match.com for 3 months now, and all of my matches have on their profiles Spiritual but not Religous. I don't even respond to them.[/youtube]
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+1 # Judy 2012-10-02 08:19
Wow, Jim, a great commentary for this day. I live in a wonderful neighborhood with loving, caring neighbors all around me and their "Godly path"? Just what you wrote: "I'm spiritual but not religious". I am gleaning some good responses (offered w/love) from today's commentary. Thank you!
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+1 # Rick J. Delanty 2012-10-02 08:23
Commitment is as difficult as saying we are part of a relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ.It is difficult to be consistent, to be faithful, to acknowledge that our Creator knows best for His created. Lord, may you supply the strength, the insight, and the love that would help us to commit to you daily.
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+1 # Diana 2012-10-02 08:30
has anyone ever pondered on the evil kings in the old testament, and how when Israel sinned, God used the evil king to judge Israel and that may be what is going on in America today. Israel is safe, if we have all read the bible we do know the outcome, so why all the slander and backbitting about the president. Maybe just maybe he is there because God has put him in that position. The bible saya pray for our leaders. hum
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+1 # Wayne Webb 2012-10-02 09:18
Mr. Obama, whatever his faults may be, has chosen to be a Christian--he wasn't brought up in it. He has a distance to travel in his walk with Jesus, as do we.
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+3 # Linda Byrom 2012-10-02 16:58
Mr. Webb, I heard the president say that he believed there were "many ways to God" in one of his myriad of appearances on television. I don't see how one can believe such if they have, indeed, chosen to be a Christian. Jesus himself said He was the only way to the Father. Just sayin.....
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+1 # Mel Horton 2012-10-02 09:18
I've been trying in my head to work out conversations with SBNR's about Jesus and his love. But, being the quintessential Presbyterian, I want them to 'study the word', 'get it', and then hold a committee meeting. (Tongue in cheek!) It occurs to me that simply asking about their definition (or even belief in) sin, evil, and the nature of man could be a good place to start. How do we even begin to reach out to this group who have a great number of evasive moves to resist a dialogue? Is it enough to tell our personal story, ask them to open their hearts to Jesus, and let the Holy Spirit work? That's a hard call for the internal wrestling match that goes on within achievment oriented believers who understand the instructions but are trained and desire to see measureable results. I'm open to opinion and instruction.
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+7 # Don Maggard 2012-10-02 10:00
You keep asking the question( Is Obama a muslim). With all the information out there & his own addmission,one must have his head in the sand if he can not come to the conclusion that YES HE IS A MUSLIM. No other President had 200 Muslims helping him by attending his nomination at the DNC. I respect your coments about nominal so called christians. Religion is mans effort to reach up to God. True Christianity is God's effort to reach down to man & He did it through the Cross at Calvery.I Read the Bible & put into practise as many of the teachings of Christ as He is my Master & guide.One Must be Born Again ! It is not an Option ! Read John3:3-17. The World through Him might be Saved. Without Jesus in your life you are not able to achieve Holiness withoutwich NO MAN will see God.I have many Bible truths to share but being 80 years old, I never learned to type. Perhaps you could email me personaly & we could talk. I will pay the phone. Don
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+1 # Ella Pusey 2012-10-02 10:48
Don, yours is a great Christian statement and I couldn't agree more!
Ella
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+1 # Dewayne 2012-10-02 10:12
Thanks for your commentary this morning. This is one of the many reasons I quit Alcoholics Anonymous with their "god as you understand him". I don't know why they don't just add "him/her/it" to their 12-steps because some of them make a door knob their higher power. What kind of power does a door knob have?
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+1 # Matt Levy 2012-10-02 10:23
I agree with you Jim. Well said. In addition, this seems to be one of the greatest opportunities for believers to engage our friends through this SBNR open door. Spiritual people (who are really open) could also be called seekers. When someone is really open, God's Spirit did that. I wonder if the 100M SBNR are really, seekers looking for truth? I wonder if this is God asking us to jump in? 1 Cor 16:13-14
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+2 # Gene 2012-10-02 10:24
Today it appears that so many are looking for real love in all the wrong places.
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+12 # Doug 2012-10-02 10:27
I am a born again Christian, believe in Salvation thru Jesus Christ alone. I am not Religious, nor do I want to be. Jesus did not come to establish religion, He came to bring life, to set the captives free. The Pharisee's were the great Religious people of the day, and they are the one's who crucified Him. Christ's most scathing words were aimed at the "Religious" people. I have dealt with the "Spirit of Religion", which is a demonic spirit. Anyone that would refer to themselves or someone else as "very religious" I would stay miles away from. Christianity is not about being religious, it is about following Christ, about the renewing of the mind, and most importantly, about Love.
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+1 # Ella Pusey 2012-10-02 10:51
I love your statement, Doug and I agree completely!
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-2 # Dionysius theDivine 2012-10-02 12:04
You are very confused sir. Being religious is about having a community (church) of sharing and caring with Divine Love in a church, where families and children grow with spiritual nurturing, worshiping and studying about the perfect God/man, Jesus, and his commandments.
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0 # Emka 2012-10-02 21:31
How can you love in vacuum? In what way do you follow Christ? May be you feel you love in your "heart", but it is not the real love. It is a useless love,a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.
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0 # Ty 2012-10-07 17:46
Wow, someone's having a tough day. I understand, been there a few thousand times myself. However, your question/comment seems like more of a general reaching (or lashing?)out, not really a fair reply to the specific post you responded to,in my humble opinion. I feel "Doug's" post was very well written and quite prolific. I hope you have a better week or things improve for you soon, without love, all is dark. I pray you find your light again soon, through JC and stop allowing the bad guy to drag you down or try hard to resist his attempt. Best wishes. T
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0 # SKY 2012-10-02 22:26
well spoken & pass your comment around to other related sites.
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0 # Niel de Villiers 2012-10-06 05:27
Thank you Doug , i coudn't have said it better myself .
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-1 # Dionysius theDivine 2012-10-02 11:54
The " "spiritual but not religious" (SBNR) movement is a do nothing, empty movement of self-serving individuals that enjoy the socio-economic benefits of life made possible by those that religiously serve a loving, caring God.

The SBNR movement may very well be satisfied with human bonding and even sharing of affection and even enjoy life by being and doing good. But they idolize only their own imperfect pleasure seeking human condition rather than the perfect God/man, Jesus, who epitomizes unconditional Devine love.

By being religious, the religious enjoy a community of spiritual nurturing and Devine Love of sharing and caring which the SBNR cult does not have.
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0 # Sarah Hawn 2012-10-02 16:07
Put so well - one of your best ever!
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+1 # Ken Johnson 2012-10-02 21:13
I would remark that SBNR makes me think of Revelation 3:14 where John tells the church of Laodicea that they are lukewarm, neither cold nor hot, and because of that they will be spit out.
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+1 # SKY 2012-10-02 22:22
God is Spirit and even though we are in a fleshly human state of being; we can interact with him(Lord Jesus Christ)personally by the spirit He has placed within our earthly vessel through prayer, worshiping, via... His Holy Bible(King James Version). God is Faith & religions are man-made with Satan being the influence of those religions. This way(Holy Spirit interacting with the spirit within our body) is the only spiritual without religious movement to strive for.
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0 # Gideon 2012-10-03 02:00
America helped to propagate the gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ but now satan is using them to propagate his own message to the world. They spent billions of dollars and other resources but today with their influnce they're killing the same gospel they preached. My prayer is that God Almighty will deliver the Church from the hand of USA in Jesus name. AMEN.
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0 # jan 2012-10-03 08:50
Scipture warns against murder (abortion) sexual immorality (homosexuality) and turning aginst the Creator to follow after false gods or those who do. How can believers ask "GOD Bless America" and not trust HIM to guide us through every trial. History is full of cultures which were destroyed for following after those who worship false gods (Joseph Smith or Moroni). NO SIN WILL GO UNPUNISHED. ALL SIN IS EQUAL. TEACHERS, WARN THE PEOPLE WHO DON'T READ THE BIBLE.
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0 # Niel de Villiers 2012-10-06 05:12
I'd like to comment on the Spiritual but not Religious piece . For 52 years of my life i belonged to the dutch Reform Church with it's believes and doctines . By the Grace of God i have entered in a closer relation with my Saviour and come to the conclution that many believes and doctrines for that matter is simply wrong . Take infant baptism as an example . If i do not agree with this anymore , where does it leave me ? The Millenium Kingdom of Christ is a second doctrine that would exclude me from most mainstream churches . The third most compelling fact is , allthough we have only one new law - to love God and our fellow humans as ourselfs - where do we see the practical evidence of this as should be taught by religious groups . So i am this lonely Spiritual being , but who loves Yeshua with my life and with the help of the Holy Spirit try to live a life that will show my fellow man how a reborn Christian should look like , with the knowledge what responsibility
it means for me . What would you do when you come to know what Yeshua meant when He said and i paraphase : Some will teach you tradition as the law of God ? Regards in Yeshua Niel de Villiers
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0 # marina 2012-10-07 22:57
Salvation of every created human person is the Person of Jesus [Yeshua/Yahweh Shua] Himself. There is no other way and no other name but Jesus. (Jn. 14:6; Acts 4:12) Spirit-filled and Faithful Christians know that they're sanctified in the Lord Jesus as they consistently and continually, in every place, call on/upon the name of Jesus (1 Cor. 1:2) and empowered to make a stand to be a bold witness of [from, on, in, through, with, to and for)Christ Jesus (Acts 1:8). Their banner shows this: It's ALL for the Lord Jesus Christ all the way or all for nothing.
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0 # Dr. Earl D. Young Sr 2012-10-08 21:00
It is true that many have abandoned the God of the bible and His Son Jesus Christ. Accordingly, 3 out 4 students that leave home and go to the university abandons their Christian beliefs. Much of it is due to their parents not giving an intelligent, logical, rational, existential and transferable explanation for what they believe. Further, many of the pastors are not preaching the gospel from an apologetic point of view. What you believe in your heart has to some degree make sense in your mind. When your reason goes, your faith is the next thing to go. Further still, many who claim Jesus as savior do not display the true indicators of regeneration. My simple advice is never judge a religion by its followers, faith or flaws but rather but its founder. Please do an honest search and inquiry on Jesus Himself and you will discover He is who He says He is and all together lovely. Question: If 1 out of every 10 airplanes crashed, would you take that seriously? OF course you would! Undertake the study of our Lord and see the seriousness and reliability of what He said is true. God bless.

Dr. Earl D. Young Sr.
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0 # sandy canila 2012-11-22 06:51
I take your point, but the "spiritual but not religious" crowd is perfectly willing to embrace Jesus... on their OWN terms, of course. They're happy to treat him as an ancient hippie who just llllluuuuuved everybody, and thought we should all just do our own thing.
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+1 # Mary Coleman 2012-12-06 13:33
I have a different take on the two words, 'spiritul' versus 'religious' in that religion or religious has connotations of 'law-based' living and that I'm not a proponet of.
Spiritual, to me means 'not law based' but 'grace' based.
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0 # Marlon 2013-02-14 08:25
They know God, but denying the power of it! - therefore they are outward christianity not inward one. ;-(
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0 # McFadden 2013-03-24 20:25
How can such judgement be passed if you are all so christian? What personal relationship people have with God is none of the Christians business and to say it's a "religion of no-effort" (paraphrasing) is quite judgmental to say the very least.

Let he who is without sin, cast the first stone.

Shameful how many here act so righteous and because of their zealousness commit a judgement against others in the most negative of connotations. Shameful indeed.
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0 # Debra Davis 2013-04-25 10:19
Sometimes people like myself have to get away from church (well, the people in it) in order to find a real personal meaning to it all, but as I get closer to God on my own, I see myself back in church again some day. Not for the same shallow reasons I used to go that actually drew me away from the Lord. I really don't think this article is really a judgment of those who do or don't go, but an objective analysis that may encourage some who are thinking in that direction to go ahead and take that step, that maybe there is good enough reason not to stay with the SBNR crowd if you personally want something more.
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0 # Debra Davis 2013-04-25 10:38
As for the comment I just posted, see also
denisonforum.org/.../...
the one about church attendance lowering the risk of depression that references this article. My comment I think started to be about that one since I read it right before this one. It kind of puts this article in perspective.
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